Tea garden in Cachar, Assam. All pix except author's portrait by Gowri Mohanakrishnan |
I am not only taking into account the material comforts and perks - no doubt there were plenty. What I really wish to recall are the so called 'organic' privileges which we enjoyed every moment of the day ..and took for granted.
First, the endless stretches of green, unlimited source of fresh air - a haven to carry out yoga,or secluded enough to indulge in 'laughter therapy' advocated by Sri Sri, with no embarrassment whatsoever regarding onlookers.
Then, an appetizing supply of freshly grown vegetables, fruits and herbs, to boost the health. Huge malibaris (vegetable gardens ) and sufficient manpower to tackle all the manual work;of course with a barrage of helpful guidance from us 'memsahibs'....as we walked around rejoicing in the produce.
Lots of quiet time and solitude to connect with oneself. It was entirely up to us how much time we wished to devote to spiritual growth. Should one wish to read, the club library housed a store of books,some written by authors one had never even heard of, and many of them left behind by the English planters. Or one could exchange more current books with friends or order from Bibliophile, Reader's Digest....stock up our personal collection as well as the club bookshelves.As mothers, we were able to spend quality time with the little ones, knit and stitch, go on rambles round the garden and point out the small colourful birds....exclaim with them over the spectacular beauty of the rainbow in the monsoon sky.
There was fresh dairy produce! Mostly all had personal cows - more like pets. Add dogs, guinea pigs and cats to the bungalow menagerie . We just had to play and enjoy the company of those adorable creatures...naturally there were enough hands to do the cleaning and grooming.
The list of all the enjoyable benefits were umpteen more. I could go on for quite a while. Of course, in all honesty, I do confess that now and then, when we got together for a good 'gupshup' over tea and cookies we did grumble, good naturedly, about how living in the wilderness, was cutting us off from life in the metros - how everyone was computer savvy or enjoying cable connections with lots of channels - how housewives were able to build a professional life and so on.
It is human tendency to suffer moments of discontent with our situation or location in life. How we wish things were otherwise....
Now, having moved to a city, I look back with appreciation and gratitude for the blessings we have enjoyed. Life offers us opportunities which are necessary for furthering our personal growth...it is up to us to accept the wake-up-call!
Today, as I read the trending articles, carried by the weekend newspapers advocating the benefits of a stress free outlook, a diet of freshly cooked organic food, joyful picnics 'far from the madding crowd' I smile to myself. For yeah...we had it all and more, only we never assigned fanciful names to our endeavors.
My one regret is that some of us took it all for granted. We weren't conscious enough of the good fortune that was our lot. Seeing how the world today is chasing - and spending heavily on - such a lifestyle, I can only say Life in 'Tea' gave us a headstart!
Ranu Singh Taragi, with her husband Naresh |
In February 2018, I started 'Indian Chai Stories' because I believe one of the best things about tea life is story-telling.
Cheers to the spirit of Indian Tea!
- Gowri Mohanakrishnan
What a beautiful piece encapsulating the true worth of Tea life. It brings back delightful memories. And of course Ranu, I do remember your exquisite embroidery, needle work and treasure your hand crafted gifts, that still remind me of you. I also recall your peacefulness and non-controversial nature, while most of us got excited and churned up over small things! Plus your very patient approach to your children, as you introduced the world to them. It'll be a privilege to catch up some day.
ReplyDeleteHello Chinny...it is lovely to connect again..after a very long gap.I'm glad Mr.Lobo and you are doing well.
DeleteYour appreciation and encouragement brought out the best in each one of us. We learnt so much..'Reach Out'and the small exclusive boutique were some other interesting experiences we shared.
Thankyou.
Regards to both of you.
Very nice
ReplyDeleteRanu Singh Taragi, you got it so right. The quality of life we led in the plantations was simply unbeatable.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful read. Took me back to my life of thirty years in plantations. A life full of freshness and tranquillity!!
ReplyDeleteRanu Barua
Your simple and direct style of writing has drawn such a vivid portrait of the life you lived in your Bagaan. Your children are lucky you made all the beauty and munificence the gardens offered an integral part of their childhood and kept them engaged and invested . I am so happy Gowri has shared the link to this story in the Chai for Cancer page . Lovely photos too Gowri .
ReplyDeleteThankyou Viji. I tremendously appreciate the fine work you are doing in the Max Foundation. With regards Ranu.
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