Hello again dear friends, and all good wishes for a healthy,
happy and prosperous year ahead. I'm
delighted to present Shona Bagai's first contribution to the blog. Her
story touches the heart and brings comfort in a way that only a tea
story can. Read on!
by Shona Bagai
There’s just something calming about a cold winter day, when you have a hot cup of tea in your hand, and watch the snow fall softly to the ground just outside your window.
My mind is a jumble of thoughts today. The world around is in disarray. The pandemic continues to rage on with new names. Even the seasons seem to be in turmoil on the Pacific west coast of Canada. First, there was a heat wave this summer. It was followed by floods, only for the coast to be walloped by huge amounts of snow and winter storms. So many things are as they should not be.
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As a teenager I remember wanting to take a dive under the nearest table when we went places and, God forbid, somebody served us a bad cup of tea. There was a silent shaking of heads, some cluck-clucking, and wondering what the world was coming to.
Over the years though, I found the ritual of my mother’s tea-making very comforting. Whenever I am in Assam, the tea is still served in a tray lined with a delicate lace trimmed embroidered cloth. The beautiful teacups and saucers are perfectly lined up. The water is just right, as is the measure of the tea leaves. The time to brew is exact.
It was always fun when my father was entrusted with the job of playing timekeeper. He would get lost in thought or conversation and the minutes would tiptoe by. The tea would over brew, and he would be reprimanded like an errant schoolboy for being neglectful. He tried switching the wrist on which he wore his watch so he would be more alert but even that wasn’t foolproof. Then there was the timer on the phone. Now a sand hourglass has replaced my father’s time keeping efforts (I could swear the tea always tasted better with the added drama though). Anyhow, once the tea has been steeped to the minute, the tea cozy is taken off, and the brew is poured carefully into the waiting cups. It is followed by a few drops of milk and some sugar. With the passing years, however, the quantity of sugar or the lack of it was dictated more by girth than by taste.
Now this ritual seems to belong to another world. In fact it is. Yet, it never felt that way when I was able to travel home every year. Across the expanse of land and sea that divides my two homes, I still drink my cup of tea, but with half the fanfare. I’m not even sure I know where my tea cozy is. My kettles are out of reach. And, as I sit nursing my cup of tea, I long for the tea my father helps make, and the cup that my mother brews. In our home, there’s isn’t one without the other. It’s the perfect blend.
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Quite very nostalgic reminiscences !;thanks
ReplyDeleteNostalgia. I can appreciate the way your father could sniff a whiff and tell the age of the tea, and its potability. When my sister was newly married to a tea person, he was horrified one day to see me boiling the tea leaves in a mixture of water and milk (to be served in assorted mugs!)
ReplyDeleteHe probably considered it blasphemy but was too polite to say so. And gently told me how exactly to make the perfect brew.
Never learnt it, though
That is Bombay Tea.
DeleteBeautiful picture ..the one with the plant
ReplyDeleteArun Bagai 4 years Tata Tea Munnar , now selling Assam tea in Japan. We still use tea cosy. Nice story
ReplyDeleteI had just finished drinking my mug of tea! I still remember tea tasting better in bone china cups and when the leaves lovingly were a gift by my very cool chacha and chachi.The love and care adds to all the extra virtues of the tea leaves themselves.
ReplyDeleteShona's writing evoked many warm memories!
Oh so many mind pictures this has created … Chai is everything you say it is and more . I’m so happy Gowri has shared this with the Chai for Cancer community …
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